Mean Girls

Question of the day- Do "mean girls" ever grow up && if so when?

While indulging in my daily blog fix I came across this && and talks about the relationships between young women these days and it really struck accord with me [in a really good way] one because of my own recently dealings with certain "mean girls" && two because its just so true

Now I have been known to thrown the occasional[?] shade at some females but deep down I can't honestly say why...I mean I have MY reasons for why I don't cosign on behaviors but does that give me the right to retreat to the 15 year old version of the fabulous grown woman that I am [ I vote no]

The article touches on why young "ethnic" women can't get along && its really true most around the way girls can not stand to see someone doing better than them. Mainly it's because they are jealous && that green eyed monster can be a bitch. But WHY? is it really that serious to hate on a girl because your insecure in yourself...at the end of the day you are wasting valuable energy on her when you can better yourself and become the envy of bitches. Don't like a girl cause she has longer hair than you, go out and find a stylist who can hook up some tracks for you...feeling salty cause shorty is wearing something you want, step your game up stop shopping at joyce leslie every week && take a couple of checks && get some exclusive sh*t but stop using another female as the cause of your problems. Yes sometimes you can't control the actions of other females but remember the only reason someone would go out of their way to make trouble for you is cause deep down they are truly insecure of you && if you one of those females who are the "troublemakers, mean girls, etc" do me a favor && go read a book why don't you better yourself with some of that wasted energy.

&& just remember ladies it's not cute to be 25 or older && running around talking about other females, causing problems && throwing shade on a daily basis at another female so I want all of you females out there just walk up to a bad bitch && compliment her on something then walk away with confidence trust me you will feel better && quite frankly shorty might be envious that you had the balls to even do that